Comments on: Massage: “All Female Staff” important?

By: robaba

robaba — Sat, 02 May 2009 17:55:14 +0000

Does my gal have acrush on me?

I have been going to the same AMP and same provider.
She recently bought me some cologne as a gift. MY hygiene and body odor is not an issue..lol.But I declined because my wife buys my cologne.
She always have nice conversations about our personal lives,not too deep,but I do listen while she works on me.
She wishes She could find a “guy like me”

By: Hobbyist

Hobbyist — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 04:40:55 +0000

I’ve never encountered a “slave” either. I think the issue is grossly overstated by “activists” whose agenda is to manipulate politicians, the media and law enforcement in order to crack down on what is enssentially private interaction between men and women.

By: Georgie

Georgie — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 04:35:18 +0000

I do like this part of an ad, because I hate seeing a guy in a massage place. There’s a korean place in Ft. lee NJ where a korean gay guy does the body scrub, and girls do the massage. Totally strange, and nobody I know goes anywhere near the guy even though we all want a table massage. I think it keeps the cops out haha

By: Massage Girl

Massage Girl — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 04:28:41 +0000

Money, honey. It’s really about you presenting something she needs, and we all need money. I asked around today, and the answer was ten thousand dollars. Give her $10,000 and she’ll date you. But really, it’s not $10k as much as it is something-she-needs. If she is working in a “funny massage place” she needs money, and that’s all she sees right now. She’s not there because she needs a regular job, or needs to work inside private rooms with strangers. She’s there because she can make good money she can’t make other ways. Help her OUT of that, and she’ll pay attention. Anything else distracts her frommoaking as much as she can, whichgets her out as soon as possible, which is her goal.

As for slaves, no honey I don’t know *any* massage girls who have not chosen to work there. Not one, in many many years in this business. I assume there are some of those shops, but there are many, many other massage parlors that provide a good paying job for women who trade working there for money, just like I do every day. Slaves to an abusive husband maybe, or slaves to debt, or slaves to some other reason they don’t want to be in normal society right now, but not slavery as you ask.

By: Annonymous Man

Annonymous Man — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 04:13:14 +0000

This doesn’t relate directly to the post, but I wanted to say two things and two questions. First, I have been to a few massage parlors and received happy endings. I don’t view these woman as “whores” or filthy. I think they are beautiful and wonderful. I was so grateful to them for the pleasure they gave me. I don’t have the negative view of human sexuality that Christianity has spawned.

Secondly, it makes me very sad to think that many of these women have to deal with so many hypocritical customers who mistreat them, as you have alluded to elsewhere. If a women is wonderful enough to give you a massage and fondle your private parts, you should worship her and treat her like an angel, at the very least. That is my opinion.

Lastly, I have a question for you. I have heard that most of the asian women in the massage parlors are forced to do what they do and are some type of slaves. Is this true from your experience? If so, I could never go back. This is too heartbreaking to think of.

Finally, if I have feelings for a woman at a massage parlor and want to actually date her outside of the parlor and get to know her, how can I approach her without offending her or scaring her away?

Thank you and I wish you the best.

By: Hobbyist

Hobbyist — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 23:52:41 +0000

Just wanted to add, reading your title again: one thing’s for sure, when I go get a massage, the last thing I wanna see is another dude!
The (gay) guys on the staff of most Thai places creep me out, BTW…

By: Hobbyist

Hobbyist — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 23:33:06 +0000

I’d give the (64 year-old male) masseur the benefit of the doubt for now – those two female customers may be attention-whores, for all we know. In any real massage, there’s gonna be some “touching”, and I’m not talking about happy endings here!
But I agree with you that men don’t have anywhere near the self-control of women, and that female massage places are unfairly targetted.
You can blame a puritanical society and a system manipulated by women who don’t put out for that. I just watched again “The History of Sex” on the History Channel, and it clearly showed how stuck-up and twisted the West is about men-women interactions. The East and Far-East are way more sophisticated (and also barbaric, at times).

Hey, Massage Girl: what happened to the previous post – I can’t read the end?
Did your establishment get in trouble for the way it advertises? (That would suck.) And is that why you were asking for suggestions?